Here are some places where I've found the blinkies, graphics etc. that I use on this site.
plasticdino
animatedglittergraphics-n-more
vibrantgutz
oldnetreasures
skelenbyneocities
sillystamped
cutewebgraphics
junabuggy
fishs-picmix-collection
special thanks to cinni who posted a layout code that I used as a base